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Conversation Starters to Avoid Awkward Silences

The line gets you the conversation; these questions keep it alive. Ask any one of them the moment a silence stretches too long, then actually listen to the answer.

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“What’s the best thing that happened to you this week?”

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“If you could teleport anywhere right now, where would you go?”

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“What’s your most controversial food opinion?”

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“What’s a movie you can quote way too much of?”

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“If you won the lottery tomorrow, what’s the first ridiculous thing you’d buy?”

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“What were you like in high school?”

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“What’s the best trip you’ve ever taken?”

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“Cats or dogs? And defend your answer.”

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“What’s a skill you’ve always wanted to learn?”

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“What’s your go-to karaoke song?”

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“What’s the most spontaneous thing you’ve ever done?”

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“If your life had a theme song, what would it be?”

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“What’s something you’re weirdly good at?”

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“Would you rather explore space or the deep sea?”

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“What’s the last show you binge-watched in one weekend?”

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“What did you want to be when you were a kid?”

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“What’s your idea of a perfect Sunday?”

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“If we ordered dessert right now, what are we getting?”

How to Use Conversation Starters Pick Up Lines

  1. Ask, then actually listen. A silence-killer only works if you follow up on the answer instead of reaching for the next question.

  2. Pick questions that invite stories, not one-word answers. "What is the best trip you have ever taken?" beats "do you like to travel?"

  3. Silence is not always a problem. A comfortable pause on a good date is a sign things are going well, so do not fill every second.

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